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Resources for Families

Divorce Books for Clients

  • Ahrons, Constance R., We’re Still Family: What Grown Children Have to Say About Their Parents’ Divorce (2005).
  • Diamond, Louise. The Peace Book: 108 Simple Ways to Create a More Peaceful World (2001).
  • Hartley, Gabrielle. Better Apart: The Radically Positive Way to Separate (2021).
  • LaViolette, Alyce D. and Barnett, Olga W., It Could Happen to Anyone: Why Battered Women Stay, 4th Edition (2014).
  • McGhee, Christina. Parenting Apart: How Separated and Divorced Parents Can Raise Happy and Secure Kids (2010).
  • McGhee, Christina and Bruno, Ellen. SPLIT Guide for Parents and Professionals (2016).
  • Newman, Jacqueline, The New Rules of Divorce: Twelve Secrets to Protecting Your Wealth, Health, and Happiness (2020).
  • Ross, Julie A. and Corcoran, Judy. Joint Custody with a Jerk: Raising a Child with an Uncooperative Ex (2011).
  • Thomas, Katherine Woodward, Conscious Uncoupling: 5 Steps to Living Happily Even After (2016).

Divorce Books for Children

  • Brown, Laurene Kransy and Brown, Marc, Dinosaur’s Divorce: A Guide for Changing Families (1986).
  • Drescher, Joan, My Mother’s Getting Married (1989).
  • Moore-Mallinos, Jennifer, When My Parents Forgot How to Be Friends (2005).
  • Ricci, Isolina, Mom’s House, Dad’s House for Kids (2006).
  • Chung, A.S., A Brand New Day: A Banana Split Story ( 2014).
  • Roberts, Jillian, and Revel, Cindy, Why Do Families Change?: Our First Talk About Separation and Divorce (2020).
  • Schmitz, Tamara, Standing on My Own Two Feet: A Child’s Affirmation of Love in the Midst of Divorce (2008).
  • Stead, Rebecca, The List of Things that Will Not Change (2020).

Videos for Clients with Children

(fee to watch)

These videos give parents the children’s perspective on divorce… no adults, no experts… just kids speaking the powerful truth of what is on their minds and in their hearts as their families change. Their wisdom, candor, and humor give courage to other children and encourage parents to make better choices as they move through divorce.

SPLIT: The TEEN Years is a follow-up on the stories of the children in the SPLIT: The EARLY Years film.

SPLIT: The EARLY Years: https://splitfilms.gumroad.com/l/odang

SPLIT: The TEEN Years: https://splitfilms.gumroad.com/l/evbhan

**Note that these are impactful videos for parents and should be viewed by parents before deciding whether to share with their children.

Woman and child walking in forest with sun shining through the trees